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happy xiao 的频道
happy xiao 的频道
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  1. Here is my resume: I am a good mother to three children. I have tried never to let my profession stand in the way of being a good parent. I no longer consider myself the center of the universe. I show up. I listen, I try to laugh. I am a good friend to my husband. I have tried to make marriage vows mean what they say. I show up. I listen. I try to laugh. I am a good friend to my friends, and they to me. Without them, there would be nothing to say to you today, because I would be a cardboard cutout. But call them on the phone, and I meet them for lunch. I show up. I listen. I try to laugh. via

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  2. Many people fear nothing more terribly than to take a position which stands out sharply and clearly from the prevailing opinion. The tendency of most is to adopt a view that is so ambiguous that it will include everything and so popular that it will include everybody. Not a few men who cherish lofty and noble ideas hide them under a bushel for fear of being called different.

    ~ Martin Luther King, Jr.

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  3. 王德峰谈读书

    昨晚在 YouTube 上看了一个复旦大学王德峰教授的视频，觉得这个人很有趣，于是找来他的书看看。读到一篇《读书如谈恋爱》，许多观点很有趣，拿来与你分享。

    谁有资格谈读书

    王教授认为，学者没有资格谈读书，因为：“读书属于学者的职业生涯。倘若是“知名学者”，就更无资格谈读书。因为他们的读书经验，在根本上具有功利性。”

    所以，“最有资格谈论读书经验的，是那些不以读书、写书作为职业，却十分爱好读书的普通人。”

    人生识字糊涂始

    接下来，文中引用了一句话：人生识字糊涂始。听起来不无道理，不是吗？通过搜索，我找到了这句话的出处，原来它是鲁迅一篇文章的标题。鲁迅的意思，是读古文让人糊涂。我觉得也可以理解成，读书让人明白事理，然而想得太多，其实是变得更糊涂了。

    实际上，这句话是鲁迅“翻造”于苏东坡的诗句：人生识字忧患始，姓名粗记可以休。其实这句原文，更符合我上面的解读，不是吗？🤣

    什么是真正的书

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  5. 杜甫一生诗圣之名实至如归。然《礼记》中说好男儿应"修身、齐家、治国、平天下"。先要提高自己，才能经营好自己的家庭，能经营自己的家庭才能治理一国，具备治理一国的能力才能平定天下。然观杜甫一生，自身不能修，留褊躁傲诞之名。为人夫不能齐家，为人父不能哺育，为人子无力奉老。不思进取而破壁，任小儿饿杀而不思图变以养家，仅枯坐空谈治国之道，小家尚不能治何以治国？ via

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  6. 独自赛跑

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    当你是一匹赛马时，他们之所以给这些马戴上眼罩，是因为如果你看左边或右边的马，你就会错过一步。这就是赛马戴上眼罩的原因。人也应该如此。当你在追赶什么东西的时候，你不应该左顾右盼 - 这个人怎么想，那个人怎么想？不，快跑。
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    今天读到美国企业家 Jimmy Lovine 的这段关于跑自己的比赛的话，深有感触。我想和你一起探讨一下，戴上眼罩，独自赛跑的好处，以及我是怎么做的。

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  8. I’m thinking about how they say “you should never meet your heroes” because it’ll likely end up being a disappointment. I disagree. I think getting to know my heroes—the people I most look up to—is what’s made me realize we’re all humans and there is nothing separating us from them. via

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  10. "Insight porn" 是一个非正式的术语，用来形容那些能够提供深刻理解、洞察力或启发的内容，尤其是在社交媒体或互联网上分享的内容。这种内容通常以一种吸引人的方式呈现，以引起观众的好奇心和兴趣。这个术语可能具有一定的贬义，因为它强调了一种对深刻思考的过度追求，而不是实际的行动或解决问题。

    Insight porn 的特征包括：

    1. 深刻性：这种内容通常声称提供深刻的、独特的见解或理解，以吸引观众。
    2. 情感吸引力：它经常通过情感上的触动来吸引观众，让他们感到好奇、激发兴趣或引发共鸣。
    3. 被分享和传播：人们倾向于分享这种类型的内容，因为它们看起来有价值，可以提高他们的社交媒体声誉或显示自己的智慧。
    4. 缺乏实际行动：尽管这些见解可能令人印象深刻，但它们通常缺乏具体的行动建议或解决问题的方法。

    总的来说，"insight porn" 可能暗示着过分追求洞察力和理解，而忽视了实际行动和解决问题的重要性。这个术语强调了社交媒体上的虚荣和自我展示，而不是真正的实际成就或行动。

    via ChatGPT

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  11. In my opinion, health is not six pack ABS or muscles.

    It's how's your brain working, how's your mood, how's your gut, how's your skin, how's your energy levels. Are you fun to be around? It's a holistic conception, and studies consistently show that veganism and vegetarianism associated with higher rates of strokes, higher rates of depression, higher rates of infertility, sperm count declines, hormonal issues, so on and so forth.

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  15. Most letters from a parent contain a parent's own lost dreams disguised as good advice. My good advice to you is to pay somebody to teach you to speak some foreign language, to meet with you two or three times a week and talk. Also: get somebody to teach you to play a musical instrument. What makes this advice especially hollow and pious is that I am not dead yet. If it were any good, I could easily take it myself.

    Kurt Vonnegut
    Letter to his daughter, Nanette
    20th September 1972

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  16. 用马斯克的算法管理你的项目

    特斯拉是我工作单位的大客户，从客户那里说过一件事：马斯克在现场开会经常会提出一些看似无法实现的要求，如果有管理人员提出反对，或者简单地说出“不可能”，就会被当场开掉；如果有谁提出方案，甚至实现目标，就会以“坐火箭”的速度升职。

    这种管理风格符合马斯克信奉的第一原则：只有物理规则才是规则，其他的只是建议。

    除了雷霆万钧般的管理手段，从《埃隆·马斯克传》中，我们得以窥见这位商业奇才的管理规则。当你读完这些规则，就能明白为什么特斯拉可以在极短的时间内成为世界第一的汽车公司。并且，这些规则简单易行，你可以把它们运用到自己的项目之上（我会拿可乐周报来举例）。

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  18. 如果你在阅读中发散思维，一个小时只读了两页，这段时间没有被浪费。

    换句话说，只要是安静地思考，多长时间都是值得的。

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  20. Where does this leave us? It’s becoming increasingly clear that the right question regarding productivity is not whether it’s good or bad, as it’s both a reflection of our humanity and a target for exploitation. The better query is how we can more fully reclaim it — to build a life that enjoys the pleasures of accomplishments while avoiding the sting of overload and burnout. - Cal Newport

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